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He begins the book by sharing an experience where he was given a meal by a clearly poor and hungry man who would now go without. Why did that man do that, Junger asks? Robert Frost famously wrote that home is the place where, when you have to go there, they have to take you in.
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This book is about why that sentiment is such a rare and precious thing in modern society, and how the lack of it has affected us all. Modern society has perfected the art of making people not feel necessary.
So if we are built to both feel necessary and share our lives with others, what happened? First agriculture, and then industry, changed two fundamental things about the human experience. The accumulation of personal property allowed people to make more and more individualistic choices about their lives, and those choices unavoidably diminished group efforts toward a common good.
And as society modernized, people found themselves able to live independently from any communal group. A person living in a modern city or a suburb can, for the first time in history, go through an entire day — or an entire life — mostly encountering complete strangers.
They can be surrounded by others and yet feel deeply, dangerously alone. As affluence and urbanization rise in a society, rates of depression and suicide tend to go up rather than down.
Rather than buffering people from clinical depression, increased wealth in a society seems to foster it. For thousands of years, Junger says, those who did a disservice to the tribe would be cast out or even executed.
Modern society, on the other hand, is a sprawling and anonymous mess where people can get away with incredible levels of dishonesty without getting caught. What tribal people would consider a profound betrayal of the group, modern society simply dismisses as fraud.
Liminal experiences change this. There are obvious stresses on a person in a group, but there may be even greater stresses on a person in isolation, so during disasters there is a net gain in well-being.
Most primates, including humans, are intensely social, and there are very few instances of lone primates surviving in the wild. A modern soldier returning from combat — or a survivor of Sarajevo — goes from the kind of close-knit group that humans evolved for, back into a society where most people work outside the home, children are educated by strangers, families are isolated from wider communities, and personal gain almost completely eclipses collective good.
Even if he or she is part of a family, that is not the same as belonging to a group that shares resources and experiences almost everything collectively.
Selflessness and sacrifice are key: One of the most interesting ways this is exposed, Junger says, is littering: Rachel Yehuda pointed to littering as the perfect example of an everyday symbol of disunity in society. Junger details the Navajo myth of a man who has, in many ways, assumed the ways of animals, killing women and children viciously and coming for you in the night.
This is quite similar to the European belief in werewolves, and it plays an important role in our cultures: The myth addresses a fundamental fear in human society: A rampage shooting has never happened in an urban ghetto, for example; in fact, indiscriminate attacks at schools almost always occur in otherwise safe, predominantly white towns.
It may be worth considering whether middle-class American life — for all its material good fortune — has lost some essential sense of unity that might otherwise discourage alienated men from turning apocalyptically violent.
Could it be that we need to come together, as a people, to instill a sense of unity and togetherness?TRIBE explains why we are stronger when we come together, and how that can be achieved even in today's divided vetconnexx.coming history, psychology, and anthropology, TRIBE explores what we can learn from tribal societies about loyalty, belonging, and the eternal human quest for meaning.
May 24, · Read a free sample or buy Tribe by Sebastian Junger. You can read this book with iBooks on your iPhone, iPad, iPod touch, or Mac. This tribal connection has been largely lost in modern society, but regaining it may be the key to our psychological survival.
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It's about why -- for many people -- war feels better than peace and hardship. In Tribe, Sebastian Junger celebrates the virtues of the Kung people, suggesting their tribal ways might just hold the solution to our modern American sense of isolation and emptiness.
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Tribe: On Homecoming and Belonging – by Sebastian Junger Date read: 1/9/ Recommendation: 10/ Clear, concise, and thought-provoking read that examines the struggle to find loyalty, belonging, and meaning in modern society.